Premium Coaching for Men

I help men in marital crisis find hope, build resilience, and experience restoration in their marriage when all else has failed.


Sign up and receive a FREE resource to start identifying what is breaking down your marriage.

Hey! I'm TJ Mackenzie, MA, CCC.

At Refined Iron we believe Crisis is either arbitrary or opportunity. Just as iron is purest and strongest when it is refined by fire, YOU will be able to show up as the strongest and purest version of yourself when you allow your crisis to lead you through the refining process.


YOU get to decide which one it is. But you can't do it alone.


So, are you ready for restoration?

I can help you... restore your marriage by guiding you on a journey that will change the way you show up, in 90 days or less.

... turn the chaos and confusion you feel into a clear roadmap towards restoration.

... identify what is breaking down the connection in your marriage and what to do about it.

...turn your current crisis into an oppurtunity to become the strongest and kindest version of yourself.


Book a Free Call with TJ

Here's what you get when you work with me

1. Plan: This includes a thorough assessment of the current situation within your marriage, to understand your goals and blockers. Then we will craft a personalized plan of action for you to reach your goal using the Rapid Refining Process.

2. Training: This includes access to the training you need to successfully master your own Rapid Refining. You’ll have all the tools and resources you need to save your marriage in 90 days or less. I will guide, teach and support you through the entire process, weekly training for the first 3 months, live on zoom or recorded.

3. Coaching: This includes direct access to me through weekly private calls, emails and drop in office hours where we can process any current road-blocks, overwhelm, or fear. Meaning, you’ll never be by yourself and lost in the weeds. I’ll be right beside you the entire time checking in on you and supporting you at every turn.

Book a FREE call with TJ

"As Iron Sharpens Iron, So one Person Sharpens Another"

Proverbs 27:17

Contact